Film

C/o Kancharapalem

Name: C/o Kancharapalem
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2018
Cast: Kancharapalem Raju, Radha Bessy, Kesava Karri, Nitya Sri, Karthik Rathnam

A gentle, episodic portrait of four love stories unfolding in a small Hyderabad neighbourhood—from a schoolboy's infatuation to a widower's second chance. Shot with naturalistic warmth and a genuine affection for its ordinary characters, it's a film about how tenderness persists across age, class, and circumstance. Patient, funny without trying, and deeply human.

TMDb rating

3.8

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