Television series

Too Hot to Handle

Name: Too Hot to Handle
Genre: Romance
Released: 2020
Cast: Desiree Burch

A tropical dating show with a twist: ten gorgeous singles are locked in a villa and told that any kissing, sex, or even solo release costs them money from a shared $100,000 pot. A deadpan narrator polices the rules, a cone-shaped AI hands out lectures, and the resulting friction between horniness and greed is somehow both trashy and weirdly moving. Great for anyone who wants reality dating with an actual game mechanic attached.

TVMaze rating

6.4

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