Television series

Him & Her

Name: Him & Her
Genre: Comedy
Released: 2010
Cast: Russell Tovey, Sarah Solemani, Joe Wilkinson, Kerry Howard, Ricky Champ

Him & Her is a BBC sitcom about a couple living together in unglamorous reality: hungover mornings, pointless arguments, and the comedy of two people who genuinely like each other but are fundamentally lazy. It's warm without being saccharine, funny without trying too hard. For anyone who's lived with a partner and recognised themselves in the mess.

TVMaze rating

3.0

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like comedy that lingers on the small untidy habits of a couple's day, where the jokes come from recognition rather than plot machinery.

Skip it if the mostly low-stakes bickering and mundane rows may feel slight if you want plot momentum or a sharper edge than observational chat gives.

What it asks of you: Thirty minutes an episode across four seasons, with a loose, unhurried attention that enjoys long stretches of nothing much happening rather than demanding focus.

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