Film

You Cannot Kill David Arquette

Name: You Cannot Kill David Arquette
Genre: Documentary
Released: 2020
Cast: David Arquette, Richmond Arquette, Patricia Arquette, Karen Yu, Kevin Nash

Biopic

A documentary following actor David Arquette's attempt to rehabilitate his reputation in professional wrestling nearly two decades after an infamous 2000 title run that made him wrestling's most despised figure. It's a portrait of redemption, family, and the strange gravity of a thirty-second decision. For anyone curious about wrestling's outsider perspective, or drawn to stories of public humiliation and the long work of being forgiven.

TMDb rating

3.4

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