Film

The Hottest State

Name: The Hottest State
Genre: Music, Drama, Romance
Released: 2007
Cast: Mark Webber, Catalina Sandino Moreno, Sonia Braga, Ethan Hawke, Josh Zuckerman

Coming-of-age

A tender, melancholic romance about a Texas actor adrift in New York, chasing both a career and a woman he can't quite hold onto. It's a film about the specific pain of wanting someone who wants something else more. Quiet, introspective, for people who believe in the weight of small moments.

TMDb rating

2.8

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