Film

Sixteen Candles

Name: Sixteen Candles
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 1984
Cast: Molly Ringwald, Michael Schoeffling, Haviland Morris, Gedde Watanabe, Anthony Michael Hall

John Hughes's directorial debut is the blueprint for the modern teen comedy: adolescent humiliation shot with the intensity of grand opera. Molly Ringwald's slow-burn exasperation as the girl whose family forgets her sixteenth birthday made her the genre's patron saint. It's funnier, messier and meaner than nostalgia usually admits — and some of the comedy, especially the Long Duk Dong subplot, has aged badly and painfully.

TMDb rating

6.8

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