Film

One Year to Live, Buy a Man

Name: One Year to Live, Buy a Man
Genre: Romance, Drama
Released: 2026
Cast: Ko Shibasaki, Eiji Akaso, Michitaka Tsutsui, Naomi Nishida, Yui Narumi

A 40-year-old woman given a year to live indulges in what she's always denied herself: a paid relationship with a nightclub host. What starts as a straightforward transaction becomes something neither expected. It's tender and funny, built on the chemistry between two people learning to want things. For anyone who's felt the weight of self-denial, or believed it was too late to begin.

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