Film

Mr. and Mrs. Iyer

Name: Mr. and Mrs. Iyer
Genre: Drama
Released: 2002
Cast: Rahul Bose, Konkona Sen Sharma, Bhisham Sahni, Surekha Sikri, Sunil Mukherjee

Drama

A shattering story of two strangers—a Hindu woman and a Muslim man—bound together by a single act of mercy during communal violence in India. Shot with intimate precision, it's a film about how quickly the world can collapse and rebuild around us. For anyone who believes cinema can make moral complexity visceral without sacrificing humanity.

TMDb rating

3.5

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