Film

Laurence Anyways

Name: Laurence Anyways
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2012
Cast: Melvil Poupaud, Suzanne Clément, Nathalie Baye, Monia Chokri, Susan Almgren

A 2012 Quebec drama about a decades-long love story fractured by transition. Fred and Laurence's relationship bends under the weight of becoming—it's intimate, tender, sometimes painful, always searching for whether love survives radical change. For anyone who's ever wondered if two people can stay together when one of them has to become themselves.

TMDb rating

3.8

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you want a long, unhurried romance where love and identity are tangled up, and you're happy to live inside a relationship's shifting moods rather than chase plot.

Skip it if the running time of nearly three hours will test patience if you need momentum, and its stylised, emotional sprawl can feel indulgent on a weeknight.

What it asks of you: Settle in for close to three hours of slow, heavy scenes, with long stretches that linger on feeling rather than moving the story along.

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