Film

Blue Is the Warmest Color

Name: Blue Is the Warmest Color
Genre: Romance, Drama
Released: 2013
Cast: Léa Seydoux, Adèle Exarchopoulos, Salim Kéchiouche, Aurélien Recoing, Catherine Salée

A three-hour French romance that follows Adèle from teenage awakening through the long, messy unspooling of her first great love with Emma. It won the Palme d'Or and caused controversy for its explicit, unbroken sex scenes, but the real story is smaller and sadder: how desire reshapes a person, then leaves them. Watch it for the performances, brace for the runtime and the intimacy.

TMDb rating

7.1

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