Film
Kadosh
Amos Gitai's unflinching look at women's lives in Jerusalem's ultra-Orthodox Mea Shearim quarter, where tradition demands obedience and motherhood is a woman's sole value. Two sisters navigate impossible choices between love and duty, faith and autonomy. It's austere, sometimes painful to watch, and deeply humane—a film that respects its subject while refusing to look away from its cruelties.
Should you watch it?
Watch it if you're drawn to slow, observant films where a closed community is seen from within, with long still frames and a patient eye for the rituals that shape women's lives.
Skip it if you need a brisk romance or a plot that keeps pushing forward; the pacing is deliberate and the feeling restrained, so it can feel distant.
What it asks of you: At 110 minutes, its scenes linger well past the point a faster film would cut away, and it rewards sitting still with them.
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People
Cast
Yaël AbecassisRivka
Yoram HattabMeïr- Meital BardaMalka
Uri KlauznerYossef
Directing
- Amos GitaiDirector
Writing
- Amos GitaiWriter
- Éliette AbécassisWriter
Production
- Amos GitaiProducer
- Michel PropperProducer