Film

I Do

Name: I Do
Genre: Drama
Released: 2012
Cast: David W. Ross, Jamie-Lynn Sigler, Alicia Witt, Maurice Compte, Grant Bowler

A British gay man facing deportation marries his lesbian best friend to stay in America, then falls for someone real. It's a tender, urgent drama about how immigration law can trap you between survival and honesty, between the family you chose and the love you found. For anyone who's felt caught between what's legal and what's right.

TMDb rating

2.2

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