Film

Fading Gigolo

Name: Fading Gigolo
Genre: Comedy
Released: 2013
Cast: John Turturro, Woody Allen, Vanessa Paradis, Liev Schreiber, Sharon Stone

Comedy
Light-hearted

Woody Allen's gentle comedy about a middle-aged Brooklyn florist who becomes a gigolo at his friend's urging. It's a film that trusts in loneliness, connection, and the absurdity of trying to start a second act. Tender rather than funny-funny, occasionally stumbling, but genuinely interested in its characters finding each other across difference and age.

TMDb rating

2.9

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