Film

Boy Interrupted

Name: Boy Interrupted
Genre: Documentary
Released: 2009
Cast: Evan Scott Perry, Dana Heinz Perry, Hart Perry, Nicholas Kopple-Perry, Karen Riposo

Drama
Very dark
Slow-burning

A documentary by Evan's parents about their 15-year-old son's bipolar disorder and suicide. It's unflinching but tender, made with the intimacy only family can bring—home videos, interviews, medical records, the texture of a life cut short. For anyone who's lost someone to mental illness, or wants to understand what that loss looks like from the inside.

TMDb rating

3.7

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you want a patient documentary that treats one family's grief as something to understand rather than something to consume, and you can stay with a hard subject.

Skip it if the subject is heavy enough to linger for days, so if mental illness or suicide is raw for you right now, this will press on those bruises.

What it asks of you: Ninety-two minutes of steady, unhurried attention, with years moving in a loose, circling order through interviews and the parents' own camera work, and little relief in between.

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