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Badhaai Do

A Hindi comedy-drama about a gay police officer and lesbian teacher who marry to satisfy their families' expectations, only to discover that living a lie is far messier than either anticipated. Warm-hearted and funny without being precious, it takes its characters' interior lives seriously while finding humour in the absurdity of their situation. For anyone who loves character-driven stories about belonging and the masks we wear.

TMDb rating3.4

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like warm, squirmy family comedies where the laughs come from decent people trying to be kind to each other while cornered by their own relatives, and you don't mind a story that takes its time getting there.

Skip it if you want brisk plotting or a sharp, cynical edge, since this is a soft-hearted, sometimes sentimental comedy that lingers on family scenes longer than it needs to.

What it asks of you: Nearly two and a half hours of patient, conversational scenes, with the jokes arriving in a steady, gentle rhythm rather than in bursts, so expect a long, unhurried sitting.

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