Film

3 Generations

Name: 3 Generations
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2016
Cast: Elle Fanning, Susan Sarandon, Naomi Watts, Tate Donovan, Maria Dizzia

Family drama

A intimate family drama about a teenage boy's transition and the generational rifts it exposes. Elle Fanning plays Ray, navigating identity while his grandmother, mother, and extended family grapple with acceptance, secrets, and what love actually means. Quietly funny, genuinely moving, and honest about how even people who want to understand sometimes struggle.

TMDb rating

3.2

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like quiet, character-led family comedy-drama that handles a big identity question with patience and humour, and you enjoy watching three women from different generations bump against each other.

Skip it if you want a sharp, plot-driven story, since this is a loose, gentle sequence of conversations and awkward moments that rarely builds much momentum.

What it asks of you: Little more than ninety minutes, and it is unhurried, lets scenes sit in silence, and asks you to stay with uncomfortable pauses rather than rush toward a resolution.

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