Film

You, Me, Us

Name: You, Me, Us
Genre: Drama, Comedy
Released: 2026
Cast: Elio Germano, Maria Chiara Giannetta, Lidia Vitale, Anna Bonaiuto, Diop Virginia

Family drama

A tender Italian drama about a couple navigating the grueling bureaucratic and emotional gauntlet of adoption. It finds humour in their fumbling determination and quiet moments of doubt, but never at their expense. For anyone who's felt the weight of wanting something badly enough to be vulnerable about it.

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