Film

While We're Young

Name: While We're Young
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2015
Cast: Ben Stiller, Naomi Watts, Adam Driver, Amanda Seyfried, Charles Grodin

Social drama

Noah Baumbach's semi-comic meditation on how a middle-aged couple's sense of self—their taste, their values, their certainty—gets scrambled by friendship with people a decade younger. It's awkward and funny and occasionally stinging, mining deep discomfort from the gap between who we think we are and who we're actually becoming. For anyone who's felt their world shift.

TMDb rating

3.0

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy sharp, wincing comedy about middle-aged anxiety and creative vanity, the kind that pokes at its characters without ever quite mocking them.

Skip it if you want a comedy that stays in one gear; this one shifts tone and can feel drifty, its satire more polite than sharp.

What it asks of you: Expect a leisurely 97 minutes where the funniest moments are small and awkward, and close listening rewards you more than volume does.

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