Film

Happy Christmas

Name: Happy Christmas
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2014
Cast: Anna Kendrick, Melanie Lynskey, Mark Webber, Lena Dunham, Joe Swanberg

Family drama

A fractured family comedy about a woman who moves in with her brother's household after a breakup, directed by Joe Swanberg in his defiantly unglamorous style. Low-key, mumbled, sometimes frustratingly static—it's improv-adjacent cinema where nothing much happens and everything matters. For people who find meaning in the texture of ordinary dysfunction.

TMDb rating

2.6

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