Film

The Hand That Rocks the Cradle

Name: The Hand That Rocks the Cradle
Genre: Drama, Thriller
Released: 1992
Cast: Annabella Sciorra, Rebecca De Mornay, Matt McCoy, Ernie Hudson, Madeline Zima

The film that turned 'the nanny is not what she seems' into a decade-defining thriller trope. Rebecca De Mornay is icy, controlled menace as the woman who insinuates herself into a family to destroy it from the inside. It's glossy, ruthlessly paced 90s erotic-thriller machinery — unsubtle, deeply satisfying, and the reason an entire generation side-eyes anyone offering unpaid childcare.

TMDb rating

6.9

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