Film

Take This Waltz

Name: Take This Waltz
Genre: Drama, Comedy, Romance
Released: 2011
Cast: Michelle Williams, Seth Rogen, Luke Kirby, Sarah Silverman, Jennifer Podemski

Sarah Polley's tender, digressive love story about what happens when attraction meets commitment. Michelle Williams plays a woman caught between the comfortable known and the seductive unknown. It's playful and melancholy at once—less about plot than texture, mood, the small devastating moments that remake a life. For anyone who's felt desire complicate contentment.

TMDb rating

3.2

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you are drawn to messy, unflattering portraits of desire, where a bad decision is also a recognisable one and the film trusts you to sit with the discomfort.

Skip it if you want a brisk plot or a clear moral line; this is slow, observational and often squirmy, and its pleasures are small, in glances and kitchens rather than events.

What it asks of you: A patient, close-up pace across just under two hours, with long quiet stretches where tension builds from what people don't say.

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