Film

Spoiler Alert

Name: Spoiler Alert
Genre: Romance, Comedy, Drama
Released: 2022
Cast: Jim Parsons, Ben Aldridge, Josh Pais, Allegra Heart, Jeffery Self

A tender, funny romance told backwards through a terminal diagnosis. Jim Parsons plays Michael Ausiello, a TV journalist grappling with losing the man he's loved for fourteen years. It's a film about grief that refuses to wallow—anchored in warmth, specificity, and the small absurdities that real couples know. For anyone who's loved someone and feared losing them.

TMDb rating

3.5

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