Film

Sammy and Rosie Get Laid

Name: Sammy and Rosie Get Laid
Genre: Drama, Comedy
Released: 1987
Cast: Shashi Kapoor, Ayub Khan-Din, Frances Barber, Claire Bloom, Lesley Manville

Social drama

A 1987 Stephen Frears film about a London couple—Sammy and Rosie—whose open marriage and bohemian circle get upended when Sammy's father, a disgraced Indian minister, arrives from abroad. Sharp, messy, alive with sex and politics, it's a portrait of aspiration and failure wrapped in comedy. For viewers hungry for provocative British cinema that refuses easy answers.

TMDb rating

2.9

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy sharp, talky comedies about people who treat their own appetites as a philosophy, and who find more satire in a messy household than in a plot to resolve.

Skip it if you need warm, likeable leads or a tidy story, since the characters are often abrasive and the film keeps wandering between arguments, bedrooms and talk.

What it asks of you: Settle in for a hundred minutes of loose, talky scenes that drift rather than build, with a mood that swings from giddy to prickly and back again.

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