Film

Old Fashioned

Name: Old Fashioned
Genre: Romance, Drama
Released: 2014
Cast: Elizabeth Roberts, Rik Swartzwelder, LeJon Woods, Tyler Hollinger, Dorothy Silver

Romantic drama
Light-hearted

A romantic drama about a reformed partier who commits to old-fashioned courtship with a free-spirited woman who rents the apartment above his antique store. It's earnest and sincere about values, faith, and intentional romance. Made for people who find modern dating exhausting and want to believe in something slower, more deliberate, and deeply committed.

TMDb rating

3.2

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