Film

Lost and Delirious

Name: Lost and Delirious
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2001
Cast: Mischa Barton, Piper Perabo, Jessica Paré, Mimi Kuzyk, Emily VanCamp

A 2001 boarding-school drama about friendship, desire, and the price of secrets. When a new student discovers her roommates are in love, she becomes entangled in their hidden relationship. It's tender and aching, with genuine chemistry between the leads. Aimed at anyone who remembers the intensity of teenage connection and what it costs to keep it buried.

TMDb rating

3.4

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