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Intolerable Cruelty

A gold digger and a divorce lawyer play increasingly elaborate games of seduction and betrayal across Beverly Hills penthouses and luxury resorts. Coen Brothers screwball comedy: snappy, shallow, gorgeously artificial, less interested in hearts than in the geometry of desire. For anyone who wants romance served cold, with a martini.

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Should you watch it?

Watch it if you love snappy, verbal screwball sparring between two sharp performers, and a cynical, heightened comic world where every character is a little ridiculous and nobody is quite sincere.

Skip it if you want warmth or emotional stakes, since the cynicism is constant and the jokes land more often as clever than as funny, and the romance keeps its distance.

What it asks of you: Keep your wits about you: its mannered, rapid-fire dialogue and stylised set pieces reward close attention across a brisk hundred minutes with no slack.

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