Film

De De Pyaar De

Name: De De Pyaar De
Genre: Romance, Comedy
Released: 2019
Cast: Ajay Devgn, Tabu, Rakul Preet Singh, Jimmy Shergill, Alok Nath

Romantic comedy
Light-hearted

A 50-year-old divorced man falls for a woman half his age, triggering family chaos and moral questions about desire, age gaps, and what counts as acceptable love. It's a Bollywood romcom that wants to be provocative but settles for charming—watchable, uneven, and genuinely funny in patches about the absurdity of judgment.

TMDb rating

3.1

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