Film

Choose Me

Name: Choose Me
Genre: Romance, Comedy, Drama
Released: 1984
Cast: Geneviève Bujold, Keith Carradine, Lesley Ann Warren, Patrick Bauchau, Rae Dawn Chong

Social drama

A neon-lit romantic comedy about misfits and dreamers orbiting each other in 1980s Los Angeles, anchored by a late-night radio shrink and a mysterious drifter. Stylish, digressive, and genuinely odd—less interested in plot mechanics than in how loneliness makes us lie, especially to ourselves. For anyone who loves movies that meander toward feeling rather than racing to resolution.

TMDb rating

3.1

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