Film

Chameli Ki Shaadi

Name: Chameli Ki Shaadi
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1986
Cast: Anil Kapoor, Amrita Singh, Amjad Khan, Om Prakash, Bharati Achrekar

Romance
Light-hearted

A 1986 Hindi comedy-drama about a village wrestler who swears off romance until forty, then falls headlong for a woman from a rival caste. Anil Kapoor and Amrita Singh sparkle through social friction and genuine warmth. It's funny without being slight, romantic without sentiment, and uses its caste-conflict premise to ask real questions about love and stubbornness. For anyone who loves Bollywood that argues with itself.

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