Film

Astitva

Name: Astitva
Genre: Drama
Released: 2000
Cast: Tabu, Sachin Khedekar, Ravindra Mankani, Smita Jaykar, Mohnish Behl

Family drama

Astitva is a 2000 Indian drama about a marriage cracked open by secrets and the weight of unspoken truths. Tabu delivers a performance of devastating restraint as a woman caught between her past and present. It's intimate, slow-burning, and entirely focused on how people hurt each other through silence. For those who want cinema that trusts the audience to sit with discomfort.

TMDb rating

3.0

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