Television series

The L Word

Name: The L Word
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2004
Cast: Jennifer Beals, Leisha Hailey, Laurel Holloman, Mia Kirshner, Katherine Moennig

Social drama

A groundbreaking ensemble drama about a tight circle of lesbian friends navigating love, ambition, and identity in Los Angeles. It's intimate, soapy, occasionally melodramatic, and deeply invested in its characters' messy interior lives. For anyone who wants their drama character-driven and their queer representation unapologetic.

TVMaze rating

3.7

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you want a soapy, talky ensemble where friendships, gossip and messy love lives carry the weight, and you don't mind a show that is more interested in its characters' tangles than in tidy plotting.

Skip it if you want a tight, self-contained story or a show that feels modern in its pacing; at sixty-minute episodes across six seasons, it moves slowly and some of its 2004 attitudes have dated.

What it asks of you: Settle in for a long haul: seventy-one hour-long episodes that linger in conversations and relationships, with the mood shifting between warm, bitchy and earnest from scene to scene.

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