Television series

Bonding

Name: Bonding
Genre: Drama, Comedy
Released: 2019
Cast: Brendan Scannell, Zoe Levin, Micah Stock, Theo Stockman, Nana Mensah

Comedy

Bonding is a scrappy, quick-hit comedy about a grad student and her high school best friend stumbling into the New York BDSM scene. It's deliberately crude, earnestly affectionate, and more interested in character than shock value. For people who like their comedies messy, their friendships complicated, and their sex work depicted without sanctimony.

TVMaze rating

3.1

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like comedy that finds the awkwardness in friendship and sex work without sniggering, and you enjoy a messy, affectionate hangout show where the characters are more ridiculous than cruel.

Skip it if you want a tidy, fast plot or a steady stream of gags, since this one lingers on quiet, uncomfortable moments between its leads and runs more on mood than punchlines.

What it asks of you: Short episodes, about seventeen minutes each, two seasons of fifteen in total, so it's an easy commitment, but it wants patience with its slower, character-led stretches rather than constant momentum.

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