Film

The To Do List

Name: The To Do List
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 2013
Cast: Aubrey Plaza, Johnny Simmons, Bill Hader, Alia Shawkat, Sarah Steele

Comedy
Light-hearted

A sex-positive teen comedy with Aubrey Plaza as a sheltered over-achiever who decides to catch up on her missing teenage experiences before college. It's raunchy without being mean, optimistic about female sexuality, and genuinely funny—a movie that wants you to enjoy it and doesn't apologize for its ambitions. For people who like comedies that swing for the fences and aren't afraid to make you uncomfortable for a laugh.

TMDb rating

2.9

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like a sex-comedy coming-of-age story told with a deadpan lead who is more prickly than sweet, and you enjoy a lot of blunt, cringe-making talk about the very thing she is trying to master.

Skip it if the crudeness rarely lets up, and the romance follows a path you will see coming, so the jokes have to carry the whole thing.

What it asks of you: A brisk hour and three-quarters that spends most of its energy on frank, squirmy conversation, so you need patience for embarrassment played for laughs more than for plot.

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