Film

The Incredibly True Adventure of Two Girls in Love

Name: The Incredibly True Adventure of Two Girls in Love
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1995
Cast: Laurel Holloman, Nicole Ari Parker, Maggie Moore, Kate Stafford, Sabrina Artel

Romance

A 1995 indie romance about two girls from opposite sides of the tracks—one working-class and rebellious, the other wealthy and sheltered—who fall into an unlikely, messy, thrilling love. It's warm and funny, never preachy, genuinely interested in how differently they see the world. For anyone who loves a queer love story that isn't ashamed to be a love story.

TMDb rating

3.2

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like a queer coming-of-age romance told with a sly, scrappy sense of humor, where the class gap between the two leads gets as much attention as the attraction itself.

Skip it if you need a tight plot or polished craft, since this is loose, episodic and happy to wander off on tangents some viewers will find tiresome.

What it asks of you: Ninety-four minutes, unhurried and loose, with a light touch that lets scenes breathe; it rewards patience more than close attention.

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