Film

The Best Man Holiday

Name: The Best Man Holiday
Genre: Comedy
Released: 2013
Cast: Terrence Howard, Harold Perrineau, Morris Chestnut, Sanaa Lathan, Taye Diggs

Buddy comedy
Light-hearted

A Christmas ensemble comedy where college friends reconvene after 15 years and discover their old dynamics—romantic tension, petty grudges, unresolved feelings—spring back to life instantly. It's warm and funny without being sentimental, a character-driven comedy that trusts you care about these people enough to watch them navigate messy adult relationships.

TMDb rating

3.3

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy warm, talky ensemble comedies about old friends who still carry each other's history, where the laughs come out of long-held grudges and affection that never quite left.

Skip it if you want a brisk, plot-driven holiday film, since this one lingers on relationships and conversations, and its sentiment runs thick enough that some scenes may feel overly sweet.

What it asks of you: It runs just over two hours and takes its time, moving between many characters and their tangled reunions, so it rewards patience more than quick attention.

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