Film

Stalgia

Name: Stalgia
Cast: Ben Ubiñas, Samantha Pilar, Michaela Jill Murphy

Coming-of-age
Light-hearted
Slow-burning

A 13-minute film about three friends reuniting during pandemic lockdown, sifting through memory and unspoken feeling in the space of an afternoon. It's intimate and unhurried, built from small moments—conversation, laughter, the weight of what isn't said. Shaped for anyone who's felt that ache when old friendships brush against something deeper.

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