Film

Same Kind of Different as Me

Name: Same Kind of Different as Me
Genre: Drama
Released: 2017
Cast: Greg Kinnear, Djimon Hounsou, Renée Zellweger, Jon Voight, Olivia Holt

Drama

A 2017 drama about an art dealer whose marriage fractures until his wife's insistence on serving the homeless leads him to an unlikely friendship with a street man. It's a redemption story that aims for the heart, with strong performances grounding what could easily have been saccharine. Earnest and occasionally clumsy, but genuinely moving for those willing to meet it halfway.

TMDb rating

3.4

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