Film

Pants on Fire

Name: Pants on Fire
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 1998
Cast: Christy Baron, Harry O'Reilly, Neil Maffin, Arija Bareikis, Leland Gantt

A 1998 comedy-drama about the fallout when two teachers' affair unravels, forcing both their marriages into sudden reckoning. It's a smart, character-driven look at how quickly lives can careen sideways, balancing genuine pain with moments of dark humour. For anyone who enjoys stories about relationships coming undone, where everyone's sympathetic and nobody's quite innocent.

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