Film

My Stepmother Is an Alien

Name: My Stepmother Is an Alien
Genre: Comedy, Science Fiction
Released: 1988
Cast: Dan Aykroyd, Kim Basinger, Jon Lovitz, Alyson Hannigan, Joseph Maher

Alien contact
Fantasy
Light-hearted

A cheerful 1988 sci-fi comedy where an alien woman (Kim Basinger) poses as a human to seduce a widowed scientist and save her planet. It's earnest and silly in equal measure, with genuine warmth beneath the fish-out-of-water jokes. Perfect for anyone who likes their sci-fi fluffy, their romance sincere, and their comedy broad.

TMDb rating

2.9

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