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How to Use Guys with Secret Tips

A scrappy South Korean romantic comedy about a woman who buys a self-help video promising to teach her how to manipulate men—and promptly discovers that real connection is messier and more rewarding than any system. It's light, frequently funny, and genuinely interested in why people sabotage themselves in relationships.

TMDb rating3.2

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy light Korean romantic comedies where the laughs come from a heroine's over-earnest scheming and the romance is allowed to be slightly silly.

Skip it if you need brisk pacing, because at 116 minutes this stretches a one-note premise further than its bright opening deserves.

What it asks of you: Settle in for nearly two hours of mostly bright, breezy scenes, with the tone shifting between cheerful and cringe-inducing.

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