Film

How to Be a Player

Name: How to Be a Player
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 1997
Cast: Bill Bellamy, Lark Voorhies, Amber Smith, Natashia Williams, Mari Morrow

Comedy
Light-hearted

A comedy about a serial cheater who gets his comeuppance when all his girlfriends show up at the same party. It's brash, unapologetic, and pitched at peak '90s energy—think *Player's Club* meets MTV Spring Break. Made for audiences who enjoy their comedy broad, their schemes elaborate, and their karma delivered with a laugh.

TMDb rating

2.8

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