Film

Four Christmases

Name: Four Christmases
Genre: Comedy, Romance, Drama
Released: 2008
Cast: Vince Vaughn, Reese Witherspoon, Robert Duvall, Sissy Spacek, Mary Steenburgen

Comedy
Light-hearted

A holiday comedy where a couple's scheme to avoid their families unravels when flights get cancelled, forcing them to visit both sets of parents across Christmas Day. Vince Vaughn and Reese Witherspoon anchor a film about the chaos of family obligation, generational conflict, and whether avoiding something is better than facing it. Warm and occasionally sharp, aimed at anyone who's dreaded the holidays.

TMDb rating

2.9

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