Film

Connie and Carla

Name: Connie and Carla
Genre: Comedy, Crime, Music
Released: 2004
Cast: Nia Vardalos, Toni Collette, David Duchovny, Stephen Spinella, Alec Mapa

Comedy
Light-hearted

Two women on the run from the mob disguise themselves as drag queens in LA's dinner theater scene. It's a broad, energetic comedy that swings for the fences with its premise—silly, affectionate toward its characters, and unafraid of its own absurdity. For people who like their comedies high-concept, character-driven, and willing to go places.

TMDb rating

3.0

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