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Aziz Ansari: Buried Alive

Aziz Ansari riffs on the anxieties of approaching thirty—adulthood, marriage, parenthood, commitment—with the sharp observational comedy that made him a star. It's smart and unfiltered, catching that specific panic of recognizing you're supposed to have figured something out by now. Perfect if you like comedians who think before they punch.

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Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like stand-up that turns a neurotic personal panic into a sharp, observational bit and enjoy a comic who sounds like he is thinking out loud on stage.

Skip it if you want a comedian with a strong political edge or a big confessional story, since this hour stays mostly on the small anxieties of dating, marriage and getting older.

What it asks of you: About seventy-nine minutes of a single man talking to a room, with no plot to follow, so it rewards steady attention to jokes and their setups rather than to story.

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