Film

My Brother... Nikhil

Name: My Brother... Nikhil
Genre: Drama
Released: 2005
Cast: Juhi Chawla Mehta, Sanjay Suri, Victor Banerjee, Lillete Dubey, Purab Kohli

Drama

A 2005 Indian drama about a young swimmer confronting HIV diagnosis, family estrangement, and love in a society unprepared for such truths. Tender and unflinching, it watches grief and resilience unfold through intimate family dynamics. For anyone ready to sit with difficult stories told with genuine care.

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